ENCINITAS — Lesia Cartelli is putting smiles back on the faces of beautiful girls scarred as the result of accidents.
Cartelli is the founder of Angel Faces, a local nonprofit based in Encinitas that hosts a weeklong retreat each summer where girls are embraced physically and emotionally.
The retreat is run exclusively by women, mostly volunteers, including two retired fire captains who provide yoga instruction, lifeguard services and art therapy; one active duty fire captain helps to handle management of the facilities.
Other volunteers include therapists, nurses specializing in burns and reconstructive surgery, and corrective cosmetic professionals who provide makeup instruction.
“The girls learn in a private setting,” Cartelli said. “Sometimes it’s about calming down the redness in their skin, penciling in lips and creating eyebrows to match.”
The retreat includes yoga each day and therapeutic touch. Girls also use role playing to learn how to cope with bullying and teasing.
“They come in angry and assume that anyone who asks a question (about their injury) is coming from a bad place,” Executive Director Jennifer Tokatyan said. “We teach them how to handle an unwanted question using love and compassion, not anger.”
Adriana Ramirez, 15, has participated in the retreat twice. At 18 months, she received severe burns when an electric fryer fell on her after she tripped and grabbed an electric cord to try and regain her balance.
The injury left her self-conscious, causing her to hide her face with sunglasses and hats, and blaming herself.
“If someone stared at me I’d immediately look away,” she said. “The hardest part was when they asked what happened. I would either ignore them or have a bad attitude.”
Thania Garcia was injured during a gas explosion in her family kitchen. She arrived at the Angel Faces retreat in 2008, where she received makeup instruction from a corrective cosmetic professional. Thania, right, on the last day of the retreat. Courtesy photo
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